Dating guru swears by Casanova's approach to women

The author of dating guide, Simple Inner Game System, swears by Casanova's attitude to attracting women – urgency, overcoming barriers and setting the mood.

Dennis Miedema, who claims he has helped 603 men approach 10,854 women over the last year, says, "There are three major traits that set Casanova apart from every other womanizer. They are his secrets of success or so to speak, and it's 100 per cent guaranteed that men can attract women with them because they’re so easy to learn and use!

"Casanova's three secrets of success were urgency, not accepting any artificial barriers, and setting the mood."

Miedema goes onto suggest that men hoping to find a new lady love look to Casanova's approach and introduce a sense of urgency into their dating rituals.

"Casanova was always travelling, never stayed anywhere for long. Single men should start applying this when they're trying to meet women as well," he says, before suggesting that when asking a woman for her number, men should first say they are heading onto another club very soon, so if she wants to hand over her digits she should do so now or face missing out.

He added, "Casanova created attraction just like any other man did, but because women knew he could leave any minute? They were forced to choose between being with him then and there and never seeing him again. Guess what they chose?"

As for setting the scene, Miedema recommends that men remember how 'sensitive' women are to their surroundings. "Less talking, more setting," he advises, "All you have to do then is go in for the kiss."

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